Tag: self-help
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Projecting – a destructive defence mechanism
This weekend I managed to ruin breakfast. I won’t go into all the details, but let’s just say this – tears were shed, voices were raised, and a lot of things said in the heat of the moment. It’s been a long time coming, things have been unresolved, between us and with me and I…
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It’s time to call yourself out on your bypassing
Don’t bypass the good stuff! Don’t worry, we’ve all been there. We’re deep into talking to someone about the difficult time we’re having, the shitty situation we’ve got ourselves into, the new heart break that has beset our lives and we get ‘ah well, life’s just a lesson isn’t it’, ‘never mind sweetheart, at least…